1) The entire creation of Allāh is better than me; I am the worst and most degraded.
2) The gaze should be kept low, speech should be gentle (not harsh) and less, and most of the time the remembrance of Allāh should be on the tongue.Read more: A...
If your child requests something that you know you will give him if he persists in asking for it, then give it at the very first request. Do not let your child force you into giving it through crying or making a fuss.
If the request is one which you do not intend ever to fulfil, due to its detrimental nature, then do not give in, even if the child makes a fuss. In this way you will nurture your children to understand that making a fuss is not going to force you to give in. if you do not take care in this matter, you will spoil the character of your children.
“A man who gazes at a non-mahram woman is just like a pauper who stares through a shop window and desires items that he cannot afford. The pauper will get nothing by staring through the window. Likewise, a person involved in lustful glances gets nothing but frustration, for he is unable to acquire what he sees and desires.
So why stare at something that you cannot obtain? Every time you look at a forbidden thing, your desire will grow, and its thought will haunt you even when it is out of sight. When this is the consequence of the unlawful gaze, is it not better to control the gaze at the very outset?”
The Sunnah is the way of Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam, the life of Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam, the method of Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam, and the path of Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam.
Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam was sent by Allāh ta'ālā as an example for all who are to come until the day of Qiyāmah. From this we can understand how perfect, complete and comprehensive his life was. The life of Rasūlullāh sallallāhu 'alayhi wasallam is the criterion for haq (truth), and it is used to differentiate between haq and bātil (falsehood): what is in the Sunnah is haq; what is not is bātil.
Shaykh Mawlānā Muhammad Saleem Dhorat hafizahullāh